DECISIONS & DESTINY: THREE CHOICES
{"Image DocumentName": "DECISIONS & DESTINY: THREE CHOICES", "Image ImageDescription": "FIRST CHOICE: BLAME. The first choice people have is to assign blame, and there are three things you can blame: Event. There s a story, something that happened, behind why things are the way they are. However accurate the story may be, blaming an event is convenient because it helps preserve an identity designed to shield us from our true fears: fear of failure and fear of not being loved or accepted. Others. I m in this situation because this person ... Similarly, the story may be true, but it s convenient and gives you comfort in the moment. There s nothing wrong with me. It s this other person. There s nothing I need to change. Yourself. Most people think that this is being responsible, but blaming yourself will not make it better. There s a difference between responsibility and beating yourself up\u2014between Here s a pattern that I ve got to change and I m not good enough. Blame is a choice that doesn t give you anything.", "Image XResolution": "37", "Image YResolution": "37", "Image ResolutionUnit": "Pixels/Centimeter", "Image Software": "SlidePlayer", "Image YCbCrPositioning": "Centered"}